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Disclaimer: All advices given here are based on the guru's experiences and interpretation of the case. The guru will not be held responsible for any consequences.
I'm confused and hoped that someone can enlightened me on this. She n I went into the company at the same time. At first, we are quite close as we help each other since we are doing the same job scope and we are non perm staff. I would say that I am not attracted to her at first. As time goes, I find that I tend to think of her at times. When she was feeling down, my heart went out for her and my mood was affected too. However it seems that we are drifting apart. Nowadays we don't really talked to each other ex for work related. I tried to make small talks but the response from her is cold. I mus say tt the reason is that durin work, I tend to be v focused on my work n tt could be one of the reaon why we hav drifted. She also began to be close to my other male colleagues. They often keep to themselves and keepin me out of the loop. Recently she has been gettin along with one of my boss very well, often stayin back and buyin stuff for him. I mus said tt I'm jealous of this... Am I in love w her? What shld I do next?
Vinny
Hi Vinny, It seems that you are in love with her. However, this could also happened to good friends as well especially if you are more possessive. She being close to other male colleagues and staying back for her boss does not mean that she "loves" them. She might just be friendly and helpful. And ain't helping our bosses what we have to do at work? If you really think that you are in love with her, try asking her out and see how she reacts. I would rather you seize the opportunity now then to regret later. Let me know if you need more advice. A Luv Guru
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"It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love"
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