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Saturday, November 10, 2007

9 Nov 07, 23:30 may: A friend intoduced a supposedly guy of good criteria to me ( as what she heard from people ), during the first meeting ( the very first time I saw this person ), he was very causually dressed in T-**** .... I mean he was very causally dressed in T-shirt and shorts, this friend of mine heard from people about him, but during the first meeting I was slightly taken back by his many questions about my monthly salary and how long I have been working.

Question: Has choosing girlfriend been reduced to using one's earning ability as the first point to think of already?

Hi May,

Thanks for dropping by my blog. My answer is no definitely. Earning ability should not be the first point to consider when it comes to choosing girlfriends.

I must say that this friend of you do not really behave well in terms of social etiquette. It is definitely rude to ask any friend, be it guy or girl, their monthly pay when you first met. It's such a taboo to do that, even close friends do not reveal such sensitive topics.

It's alright to ask about their occupation because that is the common question that people ask. And whether your girlfriend is a teacher or a doctor or a sales assistant do make a difference. I am not talking about social status but more of whether there's any common topics to talk about.

And you said he dressed casually? Does he know that he is meeting a potential girlfriend and where was the place you all met up? Sometimes it depends on the venue also. But at the least he needs to be decently dressed up and clean, regardless of venue.

So besides all these, what's your impression of him?

A Luv Guru

- "It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love" ... ;

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