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Ok peeps, i try to put it as simply as i can. I'm trying hard to forget my ex. we broke up april this year. People have been telling me, the only way u can forget her, is to find a new girl, be happie with her, and hopefully, forget the ex.
My situation now is, i got close to a gal recently, lets call her A. Everything seems happier and livelier when im with her. We are pretty close right now, and it seems tad she'd make a great girlfren. But my dilemma is that, i cant seem to forget my ex. And the feel of being together with "A" juz doesnt feel right, cos im afraid tad i i'll not love her as much as i love my ex.
So the question is. . . Should i give this new relationship a try, and go steady with her. . OR should i juz wait till my mind finally wakes up from thinkin of my ex, but risk losing "A"? Sorry if this post isnt clear. Its close to 5am now, and im not thinking straight. Hope to get responds soon
maskedangel
Hi maskedangel, Firstly, you have put A in a disadvantageous position as you started with her when you still cannot forget your ex. This is unfair for A as it would be difficult for her to win your heart. It's also apparent that you do not feel special towards A yet. Maybe it's because you still cannot forget your ex-girlfriend or many she is not the one for you. So this is what I suggest you can do; 1) Sort out your thoughts as to whether A is the right girl for you or not. If yes, then you will need to forget about your ex and start anew. If you need time to do that, you can tell A frankly. I think she will appreciate your frankness. 2) Only when you can forget your ex and ready for a new relationship, then you can start going out with A or other girls. This will be fairer for them. I hope you can sort out your thoughts as soon as possible as opportunities do not come back easily. Let me know what happens ok? All the best. A Luv Guru
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