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12 Nov 07, 21:58hihi: will a girl try to force herself loving someone else instead of being with the one she love? will she give me up? she is those kind who is soft heart and kind who dont wish to hurt others. guru she say she dont have a good reason to break...we love each other...but...why must this happen...it really hurts...
guru can i ask on behalf of the girl i like? she say her bf called and say he has been cheated and thought he is just a replacement of me...and she say she dont know wat to do now..this is getting bad i really dont mind wat the ending would be..i just want her to be happy again..what is the best ending guru?
Hi hihi,
Ok, the situation looks quite bad right now. So, can I assume that your girlfriend told her bf about you and her feelings about you?
Some girls can actually force herself to love someone that she don't really love. In the older days, there are people who can get married to someone they don't love and stay with them for the whole life. I would say that it's rather rare to find such girls in the modern days where most people will fight for their true love, to the extent of going against their parents' approval to eloping etc. She has a good reason to break off with her bf actually, which is she don't love him at all.
I have no idea why she told her bf about you in the first place. Her bf was right in saying that she cheated him of his feelings and he is only a substitute for you. All she can do now is to apologise to her bf and break off immediately. The more she drag on, the more hurt will be inflicted on all 3 parties. I think this is the best solution for her.
Then I suggest you do not jump into this relationship immediately. Let her have some time to cool down and sort out her thoughts so she knows very sure what she wants. I don't want you to suffer the same fate as her bf.
However, I have to advice you that this girl doesn't seems to know what she wants and do not have a strong mind of her own. She is easily influenced by situations and will often give misleading signals as well. I certainly hope that she is not out to "play" you guys. There are certainly such people around so don't be surprised.
I hope you can see the whole thing with a clear mind first before making any moves. The best ending is that her bf accepts her apology and leaves her for good. Then she cool down for a period of time and realise that she loves you a lot and be together with you.
Take care :)
A Luv Guru
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