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Monday, October 22, 2007

My very first case from Yara.

here is her story _^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^^_^_^_^_I met a guy in university , he doesn't know me ....and I don't know him very much , unless that I have few informations about him ...but I don't know him in person ....I noticed him since last two semesters cause he is so kind , calm and cute .... he is taking advance courses ...and I'm still in my third semester in the college ..at the same department ....I guess that I like him ...and I feel so happy when I see him ..I wish if I can talk to him ....but I can't ...or I don't know how or what should I say !!!!some of my friends told me to take the chance and talk to him ...either I will feel regret if I missed this chance ....to be honest , I want to ...but I don't know what I have to say ...or how can I start a conversation !!!I'm so confused ...as I mentioned he is so close to graduate ...so I can't see him after that anymore ....!!!!please I need help !!!I decided to talk to him this week , but I have no idea about what should I say ..should l say 'hi' but saying hi from unknown person is really strange !!!!!I know his lessons time , I thought it would be better to fabricate a chance to talk to him ...but the problem is WHAT I HAVE TO SAY !!!!!please help ...as soon as possible !!!! and I will be really thankful ....._^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_

now I passed this stage ...and I had a progress , a good one ..I think I started to talk to him , not that much ..only for few minutes , but at least I know his name he knows mine ..and we can say hi with smiles in every time we meet the problem now ....that he is going to graduate this semeater -as he told me- that means I have only 2 or 3 months maximum then he will travel to Canada to continue his study !!!I like him , I like this guy so much ...but I don't know if he feels the same !!!my friend told me , with the end of this semester ask him about his phone number or E-mail address so we can stay in touch !!!I will do this , but I'm afriad that he will reject ...cause we couldn't know each other only for few months . so asking for his phone number or E-mail address it would be alittle bit strange !!!!at the same time ...I'm saying to myslef that he is so nice so he will not reject ..caus he is treating me nice !!!So , now my problem that I don't know how can I let him know that I'm interested in him ...and I do care about him so much ....and I don't know how can I make him feel the same next few months that I only have any suggestion !!!! and I will be sooooooo thankful

My reply;

Hi Yara,

I guessed most of us experienced this phase of our life before when we have our puppy love infatuation over a school mate or friend. It is only natural for you to feel this way and also not sure of what to do. Most people will not dare to approach the person they like just like that as they will be nervous or freak out in front of them.

However, I will advise you to give it a try. You do not need to tell him straight that you like him. Can just start off as friends first and see how it goes. Who knows you might not like him after knowing him better or may find him unsuitable? It's really ok to ask someone for his number and ask him out. Come on, we are in 21st century!

But, for your own sake, do not put in too much hopes yet as it might not turn out well. To prevent any heart break, just take it easy and see how it goes.

I will be glad to advice if you start going out with him and not sure if his actions are positive or not.

All the best to your sweet sweet puppy love.

:)

A Luv Guru

- "It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love" ... ;

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