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Disclaimer: All advices given here are based on the guru's experiences and interpretation of the case. The guru will not be held responsible for any consequences.
JADEN: why do i my **** reacted when i had close contact with my gf and even holding hands. HELP its embarass..
Hi Jaden,
I am not too sure if this is under my purview. I can more or less guess what you are trying to ask.
Firstly, a lot of young guys (not sure how young you are) will have this problem but it's certainly not a serious problem. I would rather you have a reaction than not having one. Some guys are even worse than you as they could have a reaction while justing merely thinking of their girlfriend or other girls. Thus, I don't see yours as a serious problem.
At the initial stage, you will feel excited going out on dates and having close contacts with your gf, especially if this is your first experience. Trust me, after some time, this feeling will not be as strong. I mean, if you have your favourite food for a month, I am sure you will not as excited as when you first eat it.
At this point, you might want to try to focus on other things while on a date with your gf. For instance, the conversation and interactions both of you have. Try not to think of her figure (though it might not be easy) and anything remotely linked to sex!
Another way is to wear something that is slightly tighter and gives you a better hold just so that your reaction will not be obvious. Loose boxers is a strict NO-NO here.
Hope it helps.
A Luv Guru
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"It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love"
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