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Candyx3o: My bf & I are in different schools. We are only able to meet up once a week or so. He's studying in a co-ed school whereas I'm in an all-girls school. I somehow tend to be jealous & concerned about the girls he mix with. Is this kind of feeling normal? Is it also normal to be jealous of the girls he once used to be with? I don't know who they are & whether my bf & these girls are still in contact. I would not want to ask him, because it would seem as if I do not trust him. Is there any way to not worry about such things? It's not that I do not trust him but I just have that feeling of jealousy in me. Is there any way to overcome it? Please advice. Thanks.
Hi Candyx3o,
It's normal for everyone to feel jealous over their bf or gf. It only goes to show that you love him very much. If you are not jealous, then something is wrong.
However, your bf studying in a co-ed school is not his fault. Most of us studied in a co-ed school also. I think you did the right thing by not asking him so much about his activities with his other female school mates. It will only shows that you do not trust him and do not have confidence in yourself.
Try to think of it positively and see whether it helps to overcome your jealousy;
1) We cannot stop anyone from having interactions with the opposite sex, even for yourself.
2) If after all these interactions with other girls and he still love you, it goes to show he is a faithful guy and that you are a much better choice than other girls.
3) If he is the unfaithful sort, it might not be a bad thing for him to expose his true self early so you can minimise the hurt you will have.
4) By being "not so jealous", it goes to show that you have strong personality and guys like girls who do no get jealous so easily. Guys are often very pissed off by girls who are jealous over trivial matters. That will put you at a less advantaged position.
5) Since you can't stop him from interacting with other girls (nobody can stop this), why should you get jealous and sad over this? It will only be harmful for your own sake, be it physically or emotionally. Try to stay happy and relax over this and it might do you more good.
If there's anything that he did that shows that you can trust him or vice versa, let me know and I can give you advice on whether he can be trusted or not.
Hope I have given you some insights.
A Luv Guru
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"It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love"
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