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25 Oct 07, 23:59pc: I have briefly known of some males friends who were very friendly to me but in actual fact, they were not interested in me in the boy-girl relationship. I am certain of this but why are they giving contradictory signals? Fortuntaely, I have been alert enough to detect that they were not attempting to develop the friendship further to the level of boy-girl relationship.
Hi pc,
Don't you agree that human beings are just so strange? Sometimes people's behaviour is contradictory to what they are thinking.
There are many such cases where behave this way;
1) They do not know what they want so they play along with whoever comes along and see what happens.
2) They know that you are interested in them so they try to show some interest so that you will be ultra nice to them. Everyone likes people being nice to them right?
3) They are naturally friendly and nice to everyone (even the uncle selling chicken rice) so it might misled you into thinking that they gave you wrong signals.
Thank goodness you are alert enough. Some people can just fall into such fallacies that they can get hurt easily. Constantly be aware and unless the guy confirm anything, do not put in your heart and soul into any relationships. Of course, it's easier said than done.
:)
A Luv Guru
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